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ASD – A girl’s strong desire to protect herself from being a “slut” or “easy”. Sometimes she only cares what others think of her, so you can seduce her in private. Other times she wants to believe herself that she is not a slut, and you have to overcome her barriers within herself.

Girls experience this feeling in the form of social anxiety. They get nervous, a tight feeling in their chest, they feel stifled, sometimes they want to run from the situation.

It’s the same as your escalation/approach anxiety … in fact escalation anxiety can be re-framed as “MALE ASD”… and her ASD is in fact exactly the same kind of anxiety barrier getting in the way of her getting sex from you as AA is a barrier to you laying her.

It’s the same SHIT!

What’s the real reframe here?

How many times have you been in set and ejected early? I used to do it tons.

That’s almost exactly the same as a chick spazzing out because of ASD.

Did it mean I didn’t want to fuck the chick when I ejected? No.

Does it mean she doesn’t want to fuck you when she ASDs?

No.

Side Question: Why do chicks drink alcohol?

Answer: To overcome ASD.

Help her overcome her social anxiety.

Bust through her ASD!

* Persist - she wants you
* Understand it could be her anxiety making her want to run, it’s not the choice she wants to make.
* Just like you can use weird ways of getting around your AA – tricking yourself, reframing, etc – you can use the same techniques on her.
* IE: Try changing things… her surroundings… her friends… even cooler and more subtle… just try literally facing her from a different angle (Genius!)
* Take responsibility… take total control of her and move her to grind/kiss… make it 100% your “fault”.

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