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The rules are different here… watch out for that American crap because it doesn’t apply to most of our girls. Our girls have ASD x 10 in even minor instances.

It’s funny that girls are often complaining that it’s the English men who are not confident/out-going/expressive enough… well they are probably right… but it’s pot calling the kettle black too.

EC from an English chick

If you actually catch a girl looking at you here, specifically looking at your arse, dick, arms, neck, or sexual/trancey EC… it’s a massive IOI. If a girl looks you over or pings you (makes EC) then it’s an uber-massive IOI… notice how few girls do it over here. Most of them actually ASD even about shit like this, so when one does it she is fighting her social anxiety to give you a signal.

Only thing I would say is that sometimes an incidental look is an incidental look… which is why sometimes you approach a chick who you thought just pinged you and she’s like “What? What do you want?”

Mini-opener! THE BULLSHIT OPENER!

This is for when you get proximity or an eye-fuck and then can’t think of an opener…

Works great in loud environments… I even open on the dancefloor with this sometimes when I don’t feel hot enough to just grab the chick…. tap a girl on her side or shoulder or just touch her wrist and leave your hand there and say a half-comprehensible sentence… something like…

Rags: “Hey…youthinkthisworksformeorwhat??”

Just babble some crap before she even turns and trail off, make sure it’s directed at her ear so she realises you’re actually saying it to her.

If she rejects or bats you away… no big… in fact… go to the technique below. If she 180s and goes “Huh??” with a big smile on her face …

…(happens all the time) then you can just go into whatever…. such as…

Rags: “Nothing I just thought you seemed kinda awesome.”

Re-approaching a rejection

This is an interesting one… if a chick bats you off/ignores you.. here’s the general rules to follow:

1) Go more playful/happy – cut sexual completely for now.
2) Come from a NEW ANGLE! (credit: The Cost Of Success)

So in my example above say you are leaning on the bar, you open some two-set who give you proxi and she’s like… “Huh… we’re talking… whatever.” and doesn’t turn so she’s still got her back to you.

Give in a few seconds… and walk around them so you’re coming from the other side… and then step right into them and open again with a big dumb party/playful smile.

I don’t know what it is about the “new angle” thing that works… but it just does. There’s NLP-type explanations for it… but without going into the why… just try it.

This is especially effective on the dancefloor where after having a chick bat off your hand when you try to grab her and pull her in to spin you can dance around her and try something else from the other side such as:

1) Pokemon impression…
2) Sing song lyrics to girl (they love this)…
3) High-five or something like that…

I’m totally OT now so wrapping it up…

RagsToRich