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by Guitar_Whizz

Hey guys, had a day 2 last wednesday night with a 25 yr old girl I met in Chester a few weeks ago. She lives in Crewe which is about an hour on the train from Manchester. Usually I wouldn’t bother travelling so far for a day 2, but since I’d been flaked on by a chick with an angry boyfriend this week, I thought I’d go and see this girl. Here’s what happened:-

THE MEET UP

She met me at the station, got into her car and we drove to Sandbach, a nearby town, to find a venue for a drink and something to eat. I just made small talk in the car at first and kept myself in a talkative, high-energy mood.

THE FIRST VENUE

We had a light meal in a bar/eating place, not a really fancy place but a nice casual environement where we could chat and be relaxed. I don’t usually have meals on day 2s, but there can be expections. NEVER go to an expensive restaurant for a day 2, but a relaxed bar that happens to serve food is ok.

So we chatted for a while, just started talking about what we’d been up to recently, then the usual questions about where we live, family, work, career aspirations etc. Got her laughing and busted on her for being so healthy and ‘prim and proper’ – I told her I bet she had a naughty side that was waiting to be let out, she seemed to love this kind of flirting! The conversation got round to deeper, more personal topics, but I maintained the self control not to reveal TOO much about myself all at once.

KINO

I decided to test her sexual interest level by kinoing her (made an excuse to touch her hands by asking to look at her ring). She responded well, so I knew she was up for it.

WHO PAYS FOR THE DRINKS/MEAL?

This was solved easily – when the food bill arrived she just said ‘let’s just pay half each’. That’s the best way to deal with it in my opinion.

VENUE CHANGE

We went to another bar and talked more. By this time we were flirting way more, putting sexual innuendo into the conversation, and kinoing like mad.

ANOTHER LOCATION CHANGE

The more location changes on a day 2 the better! This gives the illusion you’ve been together longer. I suggested going for a walk after we left the second bar. She said there was a nice country track that we could drive to, so we got in the car and drove there. It was an old disused railway track, and since the weather was good it was perfect. As soon as we got out of the car she went to hold my hand so I knew immediately that the first kiss was imminent. We walked for half a mile or so, then stopped to look at some horses. I made an excuse to be face to face with her, put my arm round her waist, looked her in the eyes and leaned in a kissed her. To be honest she wasn’t the best kisser, but it was ok. Is it me, or do women stop using tongue on kisses once they get into their 20s? Personally I love the ‘frantic tongue kisses’ that teenage chicks (16-19yr olds) do, why don’t older chicks kiss like that?

ISOLATION TO SEX VENUE

After the kiss we were walking back to her car and I mentioned I had an hour or so before my train home, and that I HAD to get that train otherwise I’d be stranded. Once back in her car I wanted to go back to her place, but didn’t want to ask directly as that’d kill it. So I just said ‘hmm, I’m thinking what to do now…I’ve got an hour til my train’, and she replied ‘i’d invite you round for a cup of coffee but I have no milk’. sensing my opportunity, I said ‘it’s ok, I don’t take milk anyway, I suppose I’ll have time for a quick cup of coffee before my train’. So we drove to her house.

AT THE SEX LOCATION

So we get to her house, I comment on how tidy it is, just keep talking etc while she makes the coffee. Next we sit on her sofa, casually watching tv, I kino her by hand holding and putting my hand on her thigh, then get closer to her and turn to face her more. Nerves started to kick in because I KNEW a shag was on the cards, so I started kissing her and jesus she literally raped me on the spot! The kissing got more frantic and lots of body fondling occurred. Easily managed to get her top and bra off, she took my shirt off, and so on. Upper body fondling continued and she was loving it….

LAST MINUTE OBJECTIONS

….I THOUGHT this must be a shag, but when I went to undo her trousers she said ‘they’re fine as they are’. It was getting close to my train time, but we were still frantically fondling each other, and I can’t remember exactly what was said next but we ended up not doing any more stuff and getting ready to leave and go to the train station. We got in her car and she drove me to the station. We kissed in her car about 4 times and she was like ’see you soon, tonight was fun!’. So I left in a good mood but a bit disappointed that I didn’t finish the shag off.

SHE TEXTED ME ON THE WAY HOME

As I was waiting for my train I got a text from her saying she had enjoyed the night, she thought I was a decent guy and that I’m welcome to stay over any time I like. She also said that I could’ve stayed that night but she didn’t wanna give off too keen signals. Also, she said she wanted to see me again and possibly venture with strawberries and cream next time (private little joke we had!)

- Guitar_Whizz

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