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by LuckyPhil

I’m gonna write a guide to what has been working for me for sometime now. A lot of people have been asking about daygame and if you wanna improve in anyway then get into your local town centre. No music, no bitchshields, no bullshit. Great place to run routines and learn PU.

You have to breathe life into what you do, with your eyes, tonality and BL. Like I say it just takes practice.

1. Go to your local shopping centre. Personally I find going into clothes stores full of girls, very good. Every woman is a fashion guru and in general will not blow you out for asking whether garment x looks good for your 21yr old sister etc.

2. Fluff talk/transition/c + f/A2. You will be able to tell very quickly whether they want to speak to you or not. If they do, go to step 3. If not, you can plough, persist and start seeing how far you can push sets and start picking up on her BL to see whether she wants to talk to you or not.

3. Qualify/Mystery’s BHRR/A3. This does work and gets her interested in talking to you more. My favourite qualifiers are “God I could talk to you all day (reward for something she has said of value, NB you have to believe this when you say it)

4. Coffee shop bounce. “You know what I know this place that does the most AMAZING coffees. I was gonna go there, relax (can run SS patterning) and put my feet up… are you coming? If yes lead to coffee house, if no up to you, n close or leave it.

5. Buy her a coffee and say “I’ll get this one, you get the next one”. Be firm when you say this. Leads for a good time bridge and playful callback humour later. Shows you are a gent too.

6. Pure rapport building. Sit somewhere comfy and just talk openly about your life.

7. Use kino throughout. I always run TD’s trust test as I find it funny and it does show you how interested they are.

8. After coffees are finished lead her away and take her arm French promenade style (put it in yours). Take her to look at more clothes or whatever you wanna do and n close.

9. When she is comfortable with this move onto handholding instead. If she has come this far it’s unlikely she’s gonna freak out at this point.

10. When she has to go or makes some excuse to leave, get close to her and k close (GWM*).

This has worked for me plenty of times. First time I k closed doing this I couldn’t believe you could do this. Certainly livens up Sunday afternoons.

The key is to PERSIST. It took me months of cold approachs and blow outs to get this down. Now I have it down and I’m sharing what works for me, enjoy

- LuckyPhil

* GWM = GunWitch Method. See www.gunwitch.com for free resources on the various incarantions of GWM. Gunwitch also has a commercial product, Way of Gun. If you are interested in this, please help us out and purchase through this link: Way of Gun. Cheers!

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